Wrong Side Of The Fence

It's been awhile since I shared... and my motivation for writing this is currently on the wrong side of the fence.
I never had a issue with helping others dissect their relationships and even help find resolutions. I know that some look at me as resource for good, genuine, honest self assessment. It's no secret that if you want me to lie to you im NOT your guy.
My issue was I always could write the perscription for someone else's ailment but I could never apply the medicine to my own life/relationships.
The success or failure your relationships are absolutely one hundred percent completely dependent on the two parties involved. PERIOD!! That's it and nobody else. NOBODY!! Anything other than the two parties involved is an INTRUDER!!
In marriage vows you pledge to your spouse "what God has formed, let no man put asunder". Before I start unpacking this, let me say this should be applied to every relationship with purpose.
First the word "Asunder" …